| Can anyone help me please? i met my fiance online. Dream come true. He was the most communicative man ever. He came to Botswana to visit me, i have been to Austria twice to visit him. we have spent every day for over a year talking on the phone, or webcam or email. But things got a bit hectic, ugly fights when i was there for these past xmas holidays. Sadly, we tore each other apart. Then, he blamed me for all the ugliness. I tell him it takes two. Anyway we both said we forgive each other. But i couldnt wait to get home, and he could wait for me to go, even tho we had bought our wedding rings! Once home he asked for us to "take a break." He said he doesnt love me anymore but will call after 2 weeks. After a day i emailed that if there's no love we should call it quits even tho i still love him. He phoned to say he does. But still wants a 2week break. so now, after over 400 days of talking everyday, we have not exchanged one single phone call, email or sms!i am devastated, thinking i am losing him. i cant look at him to read him, i cant hug him, etc & vice versa.i cant call cos i agreed to the break. i feel lost and abandoned and afraid. That he is moving away from me, and me from him. i entertain breaking up with him once and for all, then i cant. I am desperate! anyone, please! Help me see SOME light, either way! |