Long Distance Relationships - Love, Advice, Quotes, Tips, Ideas

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HELP! kaycee 2007 Sep 04 04:09 AM

My boyfriend Josh and I have been in our long distance relationship for over 3 years while he is in chiropractic school, It hasnt always been easy but we have managed to work through things until the last 2 months. School is getting incredibly hard for Josh and he called things off. Devasted, confused, lost, all the feelings you can imagine I felt. After a short time we got back together. Now we are closer to finals and other test he has coming up and Its worse than last, now he isnt really calling me and when he does it seems like he has no feelings for me. He says he cant deal with this now, he is so consumed and stressed out with school. I am afraid I am loosing my bestfriend. I really need a answer, I really need to know what to do. Josh Doesnt think I can handle things emotionally. I am needy but have gotten so much better because I want this more than anything. I have cried every day for 8 days straight. I cant stop thinking of him, I want to hear his voice, I want to hear that he loves me and that we will be okay. He just says all he knows is he wants to finish school. I hurt so bad, We are so close to being done with the whole long distance thing, how can we give up now? If anyone has any suggestions please let me know. Im tired of hearing "if its meant to be it will happen" anyone can learn to live without someone. Prayers, and or advice would be so helpful, I dont know what else to do but pray!

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