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CONFUSION JORDAN 2007 Apr 13 02:00 PM

I am in a LDR.
I found out that my SO put an ad on yahoo personals. Said, he just wants to be friends. And to have fun.
A few years ago he did this and i found out. i confronted him with it. and said, he was just fooling around. I told him, evidentally you arent satisfied with me. he said that wasnt it at all.
Now he is away and the ad said he is their for a year. That he just wants to have fun.
I am very upset with this.
I know deep down this isnt right. buttt........
I just dont know how to confront him with it. As I went to the site with his password, which he doesnt know I know.
How do I confront him on this without letting him know I went to his personal profile? Is there an easy way of confronting him. So, it will be easier for me to back off?
He acts as though he never put his ad in their. He thinks its ok to hang with the opposite sex. I just dont see it that way?
Anyone out their with a similiar problem?
Confused here.