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to be friends brown eyed girl 2006 May 24 01:59 AM

maybe there are some strange english in this message because im janpanese.
i would appreciate it if you read this.

i met my bf(australian age20)1year ago in australia when i stayed there on working holiday.
we could be together there only 4 months.because i had to go back to japan.
when we were apart,we loved each other.we've kept our relationship for nearly 9months.
we ve never had LDR so we were so scared,but he always said me he loved me lots and we would be together soon.
we loved and trusted each other.

2weeks ago he rang me and said me,"it would be better to be friends"
the day before he said this,he messaged me "i love you baby,good night".so i couldnt understand him.
i was soo upset and couldnt do anything even eating.ive been cring everynight ever since.
i asked why he said that.he told me just because long distance between australia and japan.
he sounded not upset then,but its seems he cried after told me.he missed me so much and felt lonely,sad every morning and night.
he sometimes messaged me he got angry because he couldnt kiss me,hug me do anything.
i went to see him for 3weeks in january and we had very good time.we were so happy.
i messaged him "i love you" everyday,i wrote him,rang him everyweek.he doesnt have internet
so mob messages are our main conversation. he said i was perfect i did nothing wrong.
what he wants from me is loving him and trusting him.he asked me why i can love him so much only few messages a day.
he said he still loved me ,but he wants to be friends.because he doesnt want to feel sad,lonely anymore.

we still message each other but he doesnt send"i love you,baby"anymore.
i still love him so much.i want to be with him so im working everyday and saving money to get visa.
he said it was impossible to keep long distance relationship.i dont think so and i still belive we can be together.
because i love him and trust him...

im going to see him in july.because i dont want to finish our love only talking on the phone.
but im so scared actually.what should i do to be his baby again??how can i do for him?

thank you for reading my message.