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| Help for an old man!
Bonnie
2006 Mar 30 09:24 AM
| | I agree with Nate. A LDR requires a lot of time and effort. When there is a will, there is a way. I am 7 years older than my boyfriend who is in Istanbul, Turkey while I am in Central America. Age is not an obstacle when there is love. Keep in mind that even though you might be in a relationship you still have a life as well. But the fact that your lady is investing more time in her friends rather than take 10 minutes and drop you a sweet line, must give you a hint that things might not be the same for both of you. I encourage you to talk to her and place the rules of the game. Tell her what you expect from her and ask her what she needs from you. Also, getting busy is a great idea. My boyfriend has made a couple of friends back in Turkey and of course he goes out with them. At the beginning it was hard for me to understand that he has other people to share with. But I started getting busy as well, in different activities and it helped me a lot to understand. We both have friends now, we both go out but we also share what we did during the day. But there is NO DAY that we are too busy for each other. We make a one minute phone call or drop an I Love you in the email, and that is just enough to know that even before going out or just when we get back home, we both are thinking about each other. Talk to her… |
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