Long Distance Relationships - Love, Advice, Quotes, Tips, Ideas

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is it worth it? Spike 2006 Feb 15 05:20 PM

Hi! I'm having a long distance relationship for over a year. And when i say long distance - i mean ocean in between us. After all this time i realised that i do love him. But i can't get rid of the feeling that i'm always making the first step, always leading. I mean i know he loves me and cares for me but somehow i'm just having this doubts about everything. He had a very bad relationship with his ex but that was a long time ago. and he seems not quite getting over it. and i don't wanna be a constant deja vu. his parents don't even know about me. he says that after his previous relationship (which was a long distance one too btw) they wouldn't be too happy to find out about us. but i'm not his ex. i'm me. i want him to be proud of me. not to hide me.
ah i'm just so confused about everything. i would really appreciate any advices, other people's experiences, anything. thanks.

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