Story of the Week
Thanks for subscribing to our Story of the Week
Take a minute in your day to enjoy a heart warming story that will make you laugh, cry, applaud...and realize that You Are Not Alone in the long-distance relationship experience!
Feel free to forward our Story of the Week to everyone on your contact list who would feel happier today knowing you are thinking about them.
Wishing you love, passion, & happiness in your relationship,
How to Order Loving E-Books & Paperbacks
You can now order Loving Your Long-Distance Relationship, Still Loving, or Loving for Women online in both E-Book and Paperback formats. All books can be ordered individually or in sets.
What's more ...
Under an exclusive "Discount Bundle Offer" from Anton Publishing, you can get all three paperbacks or E-books ...
at over 33% off regular retail prices !!!
That's right ...
Order two paperbacks or E-Books & get the third for absolutely FREE
All paperbacks are shipped within 24 hours and E-Books can be downloaded in minutes in Adobe Acrobat PDF format...
The fastest way to get your paperbacks or E-books is by ordering online and paying via PayPal or Authorize.net's secure credit card server. Authorize.net accepts VISA, MasterCard, Discover, and American Express.
For details on How to Order Loving Books click on the link below
Long Distance Relationship
A year ago in March was the beginning of my true love, but I didn't know it yet. In February I had broken off a 1 year relationship that was not working out. I was sad and my girlfriend had just moved to Georgia and was really homesick. She called all her girlfriends and invited us to the Savannah St. Patrick's Day Parade weekend. I am from Miami, Florida and never really knew such a festival existed. I needed that trip so I went and was only expecting to have fun with the girls. We met a bunch of guys that were from New York (a lot were NYPD), including John. The instant we met, I felt something, but I quieted my interest. I told myself "Come on, you can't fall in love with the first guy you meet". He started joking with his friends that I was his future wife. At the end of that weekend, he asked me for my number, and I was like, "yeah, right, you live in New York and I live in Florida!" So, I gave him my email address instead. I NEVER HEARD FROM HIM!
A week later, my same girlfriend that lives in Georgia asked me if John had contacted me and I said no. She asked me if I wanted his phone number that she could get it for me from one of his friends. I told her "Nah, forget it, if he were really interested, he would have emailed me". Well, needless to say, days, weeks, months passed and soon that St. Patty's Day weekend faded away as just a fun memory. Well, I dated that summer, but nothing sparked. My ex-boyfriend was still coming around and wanted to rekindle our relationship. By the end of that summer, I gave in and figured I would just make this relationship work. Amazingly, in October I got a weird email titled "Savannah". Intrigued I opened it and it was John! It had been 7 months since we met!!! He apologized for not emailing me sooner but he SWORE he lost the piece of paper with my email address and had just found it. I, of course, rolled my eyes and replied "yeah right".
He insisted that he lost it and had just found it when he was pulling out his lugguage from the attic (it had been tucked between the lining). I asked him what piece of paper did I write it on. He replied a Bath & Body receipt -- he described the soap I bought. Ok at this point I just believed him, but then I told him I was back with my ex-boyfriend, and so sorry but we could just be email buddies. He agreed and that was that. A month later, (unrelated to John's contact with me) I broke it off with my ex for the same reasons we broke up in the beginning. At this point I was EXHAUSTED with love and had just decided not to look for it anymore. Well, the same girlfriend from Georgia called again all her same girlfriends to plan a trip to New York for her birthday. Again, I needed this trip with the girls, especially to New York City during Christmas!!! We planned a long weekend of shopping, bar hopping and eating fine food!
Right before my trip, I remembered John! I wrote him a quick email of my planned trip! He was stunned and excited. We made plans to see each other that weekend. As soon as we saw each other the SPARKS flew again and we saw it in each other's eyes! I tried to play it cool, but I was so nervous whenever my brown eyes stared into those dreamingly blue eyes!!! I tried telling myself that I was too Latina for him! I loved to Salsa, Merengue, dance in South Beach, hit all the trendy restaurants and clubs, and he was of Irish descent and loved the pubs and hanging out! However, somehow we just knew we were meant to be together. On my last day in New York, John seriously stared at me and asked if I would return to be with him. He said he wanted to get to know me better. I tried to explain that it would never work, the distance thing was a huge barrier! Its not like he could drop by and take me to the movies! Well, 2 weeks after that trip, John emailed me an e-ticket and flew me up to see him.
Needless to say, despite my initial negativity, we have been flying back and forth every 2-3 weeks to be with each other, ever since December of 2002. Every morning when I wake up I read his emails, and we talk on the phone several times a day. This LONG DISTANCE relationship, the one that I was so against, is the BEST relationship I have ever had. John is incredibly sweet, sensitive, loving, sincere, caring, funny, good-looking, considerate, respectful, and the list goes on and on. Recently, we spent our first consecutive 10 days together on a road trip to the Northeast! We drove to Newport, Rhode Island, then to Maine. We thought this would surely be the test of our relationship. We passed!! We love each other more than ever! Its expensive this relationship, but we work hard and work overtime to make the sacrifice for TRUE LOVE! Like John always tells me, "We may have hundreds of miles between us, but we have zero miles between our hearts."
Oh did I forget to mention that we have talked about me moving up to New York? Of course, only if there are wedding bells in the horizon. Guess who has made all the plans? Not me, but my Johnny! He even picked out the song he wants playing as I walk down the aisle. A guy, do this? His friends kid him all the time, and I? I just smile this knowing smile because I know he is the ONE! I am just waiting for him to ask....
Esther, Florida, USA
Publish Your Story Online
If you have a long-distance relationship Love Story
Publish it online today by clicking on Publish Your Story
Essential Tips for
Use thoughtful gifts to stay connected
Communicate as often as possible
Try to see one another at least every 4 weeks
Sign the Loving
For more heartfelt long-distance love stories, visit our Guest Book.
I always love reading about people's experiences in long-distance relationships...for it is those experiences that make life special!
You can always sign our Guest Book by clicking on Guest Book
Using Our Support Newsgroup
Want to share your thoughts & feelings with others who are experiencing a long-distance relationship?
The best way is through our Support Newsgroup.
Our newsgroup allows you to post thoughts, feelings, and concerns that others can respond to online. The result is an ongoing dialogue between people who share similar experiences.
To visit our Support Newsgroup, click on Support Newsgroup
Send Someone Special A FREE Loving E-Card
If you have a "special someone" or friend who would feel comforted by the Loving Your Long-Distance website...
Send them an FREE E-Card by clicking on Send a Loving E-Card
... I'm sure they would love to know you are thinking about them.
Subscribing to Story of the Week
This is a FREE, opt-in subscription mailer sent only to members of our private mailing list.
Please forward the Story of the Week to any friends who may be interested!
How do they signup?
Simple, just click on Story of the Week
How to Unsubscribe
To ensure we are in compliance with our website host's anti-SPAM policies, if you do not want to receive future issues of the Loving Your Long-Distance Relationship Story of the Week, please send a blank e-mail with the subject REMOVE to firstname.lastname@example.org